This film is recommended by Kaye. I watched it before & cried, I think it is very inspiring especially those from Christian family that struggle so much due to family take gay as a great sin. Would love to share it here.
Thanks Kaye for sharing with us such great firm. May God bless us all.
Trailer of "Prayers for Bobby"
The speech given by Bobby's mother after his death.
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Message from Kaye:
"You guys got to watch this new movie called 'Prayers for Bobby'. It's based on a true story, very real & meaningful and really touching. The speech given by Bobby's mother (the clip was named 'A child is listening') can just make you cry. I cried during watching the clip."
I watched this video a couple of weeks ago and think this is a must see video for lesbian who wish to have good long term relationship.
In this video, lesbian couple- Ellen & Portia talks about commitment, common issues in lesbian relationship, suffering, overcoming it, and all sort of subjects towards keeping a long term girl to girl relationship.
Video 1, I like these parts :
1)Oprah: "when do you know she is the one for you?"
Portia: "when I first laid eyes on her"
2) Oprah: "You call each other -my wife, my wife?"
Ellen: "it's really hard to call her -husband?!"
Video 2, hum...
Both of them are wearing their ring on their left hand? I thought is left hand for man and right for woman?
* there goes my typical view!
What do you think? Which part of the video you like?
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Ever imagine you can be vibrantly healthy and happy just by the comfort of sitting in your home?
This means no longer trap in heavy traffic, lousy public transport system, limited parking lot, high parking fees & hot weather in KL.
I'm not the ONLY ONE imagine this so far, I bet you did imagine this before.
As I stepped into year 2010, I hold a new & very simple motto "work less for more". In simple words, I'm a lazy person and I always like to ask question like this "Ada shortcut tak?".
Every month, there is a moment for "Aunty visit", "Da Yi Ma" or commonly known - Period time. As my body still very weak (Chinese doctor put me on 3 months herbs scheme), so I sit/rest at home and decided to have some fun and play smart.
There are few things I seriously dislike about KL - heavy traffic, lousy public transport system, limited parking lot, high parking fees and hot weather.
* I don't personally owned a car. Still use family's car.
So...This is my first attempt to buy Malaysia product via internet. I bought 老行家-虫草白凤丸online
*I did buy other stuff from oversea before but not Malaysia product.
I bought 2 box, total is RM158.40.
Money SAVED RM13.60 + free from heavy traffic, lousy public transport system, limited parking lot, high parking fees & hot weather in KL.
My first attempt -->SUCCESS~
How about you? Ever tried anything like this?
Among my friends here, I think most likely Kaye or Yean have experience in buying online. Don't ask me why, just my guess :P
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很喜欢Kaye 在部落格里给我的留言， 很感激她给我发了这个留言。是关于一个Gay告诉straight people同志的权利及straight people 应该学会尊重同志。他在video 里也给于同志很好的祝福。
我看了英文的版本，很喜欢~
在这里，我也亲自翻译了中文版本。
英文
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Johnny Weir: "I hope that more children have the same opportunities as me, with the same parents as me, that let me be an individual, who gave me freedom, and taught me to believe in myself before anyone else would believe in me. I hope more young boys and girls can grow up to have that love and support from their families, and it's very clear to me that those two men talking on that program did not have that kind of upbringing."
中文 ==== Johnny Weir：“我希望更多的孩子像我一样有同样的机会，如同我一样拥有尊重我的父母 - 他们让我成为一个独立的个体，给了我自由，并教我在别人相信我之前，先相信我自己。
我希望有更多年轻的男孩和女孩长大后能够有爱和家人的支持，并且这件事很清楚的就是 -我觉得说这话的两个男子的成长背景并没有达到这样的教育" * 两个男子说了不遵重同志的话。
Johnny Weir：“我希望更多的孩子像我一样有同样的机会，如同我一样拥有尊重我的父母 - 他 *这是Kaye 在部落格里的留言,很有意思~
======================================== End of February, the end of the Winter Olympics too. Check out this unique figure skater named Johnny Weir. Ranked eighth in the world.
People are still very close minded toward gays and afraid of things that are very uniquely different from them. Even at the Olympics, there are 2 Australian commentators and a Canadian broadcaster making homophobia jokes about Johnny Weir.
He finished sixth overall in the figure skating competition. Most ppl commented that it was an unfair judging.
Today, you'll pass through an "ultra-switching door"(任意门） and you will get to see her journey back in the real L world.
"3-2-1"
"You are now in the L world. "
A world sprawling with different type of girls, amazingly different female fashion styles, wacky erotic objects and more - that are totally beyond your imagination.
This is a fascinating world with huge populations divided by many different tribes.
Two main tribes in the L world are- the "Shane/Alice" tribe and "Jenny" tribe.
Now, stop there and think for a second...Does these tribes sound familiar?
You may be surprise they may live around your life or perhaps you've
heard of them.
"Jenny" Tribe
Remember the character- Jenny in the L word drama series? Jenny is the type of girl that is very loyal to her friends(Shane in particular), creative but live in her own world and emotionally fragile...
She's very bad in handling relationship...Deep-seated fear that she just one of those who doesn't deserve to be happy.
In real life, this tribe tend to be more complicated than what are described above....
"Can you chat with me?", "Do you have msn, shall we talk there?"
...............
She is desperate for love. Possibly due to her depressed or discontented background.
Usually, she is very brave, sometimes, too brave..Always work hard in the things or girls that interest her...But very prone to screw things up in the end...
A very sad tribe isn't it? In fact, I used to be a member of this tribe...There were times, I just never think I ever deserve to be happy (in relationship) and my emotion is so easily affected by others.
Now I'm glad I've changed and the reasons? You'll find out later.
What are your thoughts for Jenny tribe? I'll like to read it at the comment box. ;)
Upcoming, in the next post, meet the "Shane & Alice" tribe - sleep around with any girl she can possibly reach and constantly changing girlfriend ...
Have you ever meet someone in the first time and think this ...
"Gosh, She is Hot!"
And you stop when she saunter by, admiring every movement she made.
It's magical!
When you meet some hot/sexy girl, the image seems to etch in your brain immediately.
I still can recall the first day I saw S.E, even though it was some time ago.
She was shy and soft-spoken, charming smile, neat fringe, and I always see catchy gleams in her eyes.
The moment I lie my eyes on her, almost instantly, I have a "boiling" feeling
The temperature inside me was racing up, I knew my body temperature was definitely over 45 degrees.
*You know, like the cooking water is bubbling and when it is done, the kettle start to go "Bee~bee~bee!".
Till now, everyday, I still feel the same for her. I think it is because we have been through so much and I really appreciate her alot.
I appreciate every moment we are together, I can't take my eyes off her even a single second.
At times, she will stare back at me and asked: "What are you looking at?". I always flash her a smile without a speech and silently my heart goes "Gosh, you are hot!" =)
If you want to feel how I felt {ignite the burning flame!}, watch the video below and you will know what I mean.
What's your feeling/experience with the girl that makes your heart pumping fast? As usual, the comment box is waiting for you ;)
Picture this, a little girl was walking in a jungle. As she walked, she missed a step and accidently drop into a hole and have access to another world...
To her or many others, this world was unusual. Very different from the standard world.
Oh... this little known world is called the L world.
This little girl grew up as time flies...Yape! I just passed my 27 years old birthday(December).
I am a girl ( perhaps I should be addressed as a lady now?)
and having a love relationship with another beautiful lady -S.E.
Few realizations after some years in the L world and I'll like to record it down what I have seen and experienced.
Realization #1 - Love is meant to be an Attraction
Just like a magnet attract another magnet(naturally). To do this, it's to simply increase your own magnetic power. Sadly, not many people realize this.
Instead, many people follow the mundane way, which is, trying so damn hard to please the other party. Sometimes, even losing your own pride.....
Realization #2 - Being Independent is really Important
Being with a girl is fun, however, there is very less guarantee. Well, a dream of fun and security in a girl to girl relationship is still a myth.
Learn to be independent seem to break the myth.
It allow us to have fun and guarded security(in our own hand). Therefore, see yourself saying alot of hello and welcome to many financial and self-development courses (especially techniques for emotion & hot temper).
It's like if you throw an apple seed and expect to grow durian... so if you want durian, make sure
you throw a durian seed and take care of it until it grow into a durian tree.
If you want happiness, don't you think you need to first throw the happy seeds? *If you don't get the answer, I can't really help you...
I guess we are all poisoned by those drama series about girl would forgive everything her lover ever done (even being drunk and beat her up, well you know what I mean...), and thinking that is REAL love?!
Well, it is just plain drama. So, stop dreaming.
Alright. So that's my story, does it sound like "Alice the Wonder land"?
Ahem, ahem...well, I just turn 27, I have every right to be naughty again ;p
Any thoughts about the L world? Straight or Lesbian, feel free to put your thoughts & experience down at the comment box. =)
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