Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts

Thursday, November 10, 2011

你不知道的事

亲爱的,


深夜, 从抵达美国华盛顿DC的一刻忙碌到现在可以安静的给你写封信。

要飞离你 17010.50公里, 于我在心里是困难的。 亲爱的, 美国是一个人人称羡的天堂,而我此刻要不是因为公事,我是决不愿意离开你一步 的。 你 从来不知道那看似潇洒的我,离开你的举步艰辛。

这些日子 忙工事和出外公干, 忙的昏天昏地,每每我深夜11或12点才回家见你,你偶有生气因我太忙碌而没有办法多陪伴你。

亲爱的, 这点我对你是愧疚的。 那看似思想开放的我,其实是一个非常传统的人。
亲爱的,我那么努力是我渴望你和我在一起能很幸福, 我们能有很好的未来。

是的,无论我看上去是多么潇洒,其实我在这一点上,终究有我的执著。

看着夜空,想想虽然我有时会因为个人的傲气而说,遇到我你运气好。经过了那么多人事人非 ,我深知, 亲爱的,遇见你是我的运气,我要好好的爱你。

You know, whenever I see you coming, my heart will always smile "that's her, the girl that hold my heart forever"



爱你,
翼儿

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Saturday, January 30, 2010

In the L World - Do You Belong to This Tribe? (1)


















In previous post, you have discover a little girl's realizations in the L world. *that's me :P

Today, you'll pass through an "ultra-switching door"(任意门) and you will get to see her journey back in the real L world.

"3-2-1"

"You are now in the L world. "

A world sprawling with different type of girls, amazingly different female fashion styles, wacky erotic objects and more - that are totally beyond your imagination.

This is a fascinating world with huge populations divided by many different tribes.

Two main tribes in the L world are- the "Shane/Alice" tribe and "Jenny" tribe.

Now, stop there and think for a second...Does these tribes sound familiar?
You may be surprise they may live around your life or perhaps you've
heard of them.

"Jenny" Tribe

Remember the character- Jenny in the L word drama series? Jenny is the type of girl that is very loyal to her friends(Shane in particular), creative but live in her own world and emotionally fragile...

She's very bad in handling relationship...Deep-seated fear that she just one of those who doesn't deserve to be happy.

In real life, this tribe tend to be more complicated than what are described above....

"Can you chat with me?", "Do you have msn, shall we talk there?"

...............

She is desperate for love. Possibly due to her depressed or discontented background.

Usually, she is very brave, sometimes, too brave..Always work hard in the things or girls that interest her...But very prone to screw things up in the end...

A very sad tribe isn't it? In fact, I used to be a member of this tribe...There were times, I just never think I ever deserve to be happy (in relationship) and my emotion is so easily affected by others.

Now I'm glad I've changed and the reasons? You'll find out later.

What are your thoughts for Jenny tribe? I'll like to read it at the comment box. ;)

Upcoming, in the next post, meet the "Shane & Alice" tribe - sleep around with any girl she can possibly reach and constantly changing girlfriend ...


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Saturday, August 1, 2009

拉子朋友来访啦!拉子有没有纯友谊?

zw 前一段日子从新加坡来到马来西亚
我们俩聊天聊了近五个小时,天南地北的聊,爽!

我们聊了很多,简单的摘录两大点:
1)zw说至今她没看过一对拉子可以有很长久的关系,叫我
要努力,与女友长长久久的。
2)拉子有没有纯友谊?

我的答案?
1)当时我对着zw笑一笑,没有回答。 有些时候沉默微笑是一个
很好的答案。
长久?有何不可呢?有缘份,愿意经营这段关系,愿意坚持的
守候,愿意包容彼此,我觉得能长久的可能性真的会很高。

2)“或许有吧。” *我不想完全的否定这个可能性,至少我与zw
的友谊还蛮好的。 以前我或许有一些拉子朋友喜欢上我的经验,
可是那是个案,一竿子不能打翻一条船。
当时我看着zw,我心里想,“嗯,希望你我能成为一生的朋友。”

十个有九个都会跑来告诉我拉子关系不可能长久,很多麻烦或
是怎样怎样。。。我常被别人认为很天真,于是也不太回答他们,
何必争辨呢?他们要相信的事,就让他们去相信吧。

关于他们的提点,我会谢谢他们,让我能了解其他拉子很多的问题,
但是我从来就微笑不回答。

因为--〉我更想的是如何从中去寻找解答或解决之道。

我在想别人没有很长久与我何干呢?我又不是那些人。
我不想他们成为我不幸福的理由或藉口。

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Thursday, June 11, 2009

I Shall Believe 而我深信



很喜欢张悬唱的I Shall Believe,当我哼唱的时候,我总觉得能有一股力量。
尤其女同志,要面对人们的眼光,要面对种种的困难。

当我们面对种种的困难,亲爱的,而我深信我们的爱能够让我们手牵着手一起走下去,爱你。=)

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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

亲爱的,我愿活在你爱里


亲爱的,

我愿活在你爱里=)

I Would Live In Your Love
by Sara Teasdale

I would like in your love,
As the sea-grasses live in the sea,
Borne up by each wave as it passes,
Drawn down by each wave that recedes;
I would empty my soul of my dreams
That have gathered in me.
I would beat with your heart as it beats,
I would follow your soul as it leads.

我愿活在你爱里
莎拉。剔思达尔

我愿活在你的爱里,
就像海草活在海里,
随每一个过境浪涛而起,
随每一个远撤浪涛而伏;
我愿从我灵魂清除所有
结聚的梦幻,
我愿循著你的心律鼓动,
我愿跟随你的灵魂无论何处。

~翼儿

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Sunday, April 12, 2009

桌上的白纸,满满的都是你的名字


度过了漫长一天的等待。 当大地都盖上被垫休息,我体内思念的火焰,悄然起舞;红红的,燃烧。
桌上的白纸,满满的都是你的名字。

月儿看见,都笑我了。

我想要是你看见了,也会笑我。呵呵。

明天得开会,我是Training Mentor for volunteers,所以今晚得拼命啃资料,愿volunteer 的工作,
能帮助小孩达到他们的梦想。

取名翼儿,因为在孩提时希望有一双翅膀带我飞向梦想,而我的梦想是我的爱人。

亲爱的你,是我心里牵挂的名字。

翼儿

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亲爱的你 =)


亲爱的你,今天早晨,第一个划过的念头是你,我微笑起床。

很开心,因为知道你feeling calm and peaceful. 忙碌之余,记得要好好照顾身体。不然我会担心。
我很久很久没听见你,短短的日子,没有预期的,疯狂的想念你。

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Saturday, February 14, 2009

Happpppy Valentines Day~情人节快乐~


Happy Valentines Day to All~ Today is a special day for you to be with your dear girlfriend~

我在这special day 会做些什么?做爱做得事:P待我得空的时候,才update 大家吧:P

zi wei?安同学?Kaye?双儿?你们呢?:P

如果你想要分享你们的love story,还是在这里 对你的爱人做爱的宣言.feel free to do so;)

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Thursday, January 29, 2009

Why Are You So Afraid of Losing Your Girlfriend?


Why are you so afraid of losing someone especially your love one that is already change of heart?  Perhaps too many worry about their love one betray them and seek all kinds of methods to keep their love one in "good care",extreme endeavour such as: track their incoming/outgoing call, question them where they had been or whom they were with and etc.

What's the point? She is your love one, not a prisoner...

If she really betray you and what you have done won't bring her back either. So why waste your strength and make the situation ugly enough for both of you?

I heard too much about, " I think she is kinda pretty, should be those will betray on partner one..." , " she betrayed her ex before, OMG, she is so gotta betray me as well!"

These people just can't stop worrying about the betrayal and want to do everything to check on her partner..... and guess what, all these endeavour lead to the real situation of betrayal. Who wants a girlfriend that has no trust in relationship anyway and stalk you for everything... That is really a "breath- taking" relationship.

If she really betray you, let her go then.  There is always another person out there waiting for you. 

Know this. Your love one is a free spirit, it is her very own free will to choose to stay with you. 

If you really so afraid of losing in a love relationship, maybe you shouldn't love, because you have yet to know what is love about.

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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

给你


给你,

看见这段comment,是有一些惊讶。谢谢你,谢谢你的祝福语。我想这段祝福语会成为一抹闪耀的光芒,永远的驻留在我心里,温暖着我的心灵。

我的身体尚算安好, 很谢谢你的关心。

关于梦想,我想每个人都有权利去追求,去拥有。而我渴望你也能够早日拥有你的梦想。祝你能够早日成为一个专业摄影师, 我深信你会做得很好。

我们还是朋友,有事可以放心的告诉我* 没事也可以让我看看你拍的精美照片:P。加油, 我给你打气!

我依然为你许着同一个愿望-愿你能幸福, 能平安,能快乐。

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Tuesday, May 31, 2005

The combination of black & white lies...


Deadly air i inhaled.

listening unknown singer sang the song"fallen angel".

The evil heart was racing and it was unstoppable,

Tempting, to kill whoever approached me.

At this moment,god's watchful hand had failed.

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